Do u tell ur FWB ur prego or jus break it off & decide on ur own?

I do honestly no w/o question that he'd b there 4the child & me as well. We've been involved since hs, he went outta state 2college. He'd always come 2visit when he was in town. Of course our lives took us dn different paths EVEN so we'd stay in touch. I was internin & lost our child. We kinda drifted after that. FB-omg! It's a TOTAL reunion on there. Of course he has a child now. Which affects us in NO way-We've been intimate every week since we've reunited. Last wk, he seemed distant. I questioned him about it-he jus dn played it. My thoughts of his distant were correct. I received a call-it some female informin me of his sleep patterns & odd behavior. She "warned" I'm betta NOT be havin no babbies etc, etc & yadayada. I don't see myself being involved in such a situation. I told myself that could easiliy have been me on the other end of that call-seriously doubt. I'd call someone "my man" while knowing WHICH #2 phone statin no child better be coming. Acknowledgin he's having unprotected & don't even leave "my man's" name! That acknowledges I'm NOT a . She spoke of seein my photos threw out his cell. I was stun. The following wk. I went to my physician I am offically w/his Jr. he doesn't know. I am 3mo, I'm not aboarding. We BOTH had unprotected n' this a factor of that. I make good money, I have no need for child support even though it is our unborn child's rt. Our families know one another & always thought that we'd be married w/children. I know it is NOT my place 2decide 4him @ the same time. I love 'em enough NOT 2even put him in a stressful situation as that. Who aboards their child @ 3mo? I know that he will hate me for what I'm considering he's always wanted a son. The complications just aren't worth it. I've been ignorin his calls, IM's, email & text. If he could do that 2her & their daughter what the hell do I have 2look 4ward 2? I love me better than that. If a person is going 2go there NOTHING that ur goin 2do 2make 'em stay.....time reveals all things. Our son will be NO different than her. I am no different than her. It is evident that SHE alreadys knows, she speaks of him being sooo tired n' ill. Would u tell 'em or go raise ur child on ur own? Don't hold bac, if I aired my business out nationally than there is NO purpose 4me to be offended by persons conductin themselves as saint & feelin they are our Lord God by judgin me instead of advisin as I'm requestin.........lol.